I finally took kids out for private times this week.  There was a time when I spent an hour with each child individually almost every week.  We'd do half an hour of my choice (which was a book or Bible study and working on their Creative Memories album) and half an hour of their choice (which was usually some sporting practice or playing a board or card game).  That hasn't happened with any regularity for at least two years, maybe more.  This week I dined with Andrew at a Chinese buffet on Thursday and with Sarah at Olive Garden today.  We connected in a deep way, with tears and "true confessions."  (Nothing bad, don't worry!)  This is so important.  May I remember that and act accordingly!